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If you heard "Safe is sexy" it may have sounded like this:

The Candie's Foundation claims that if you have unprotected sex, you have an 85% chance of being pregnant in one year ...

What they didn't say... Studies show using a condom everytime correctly, 1 in 5 couples will become pregnant in 18 months. A girl only gets pregnant and she can only get pregnant about 24hrs. in a month but both of you can get an STD 365 days a year!!!! 15,000 people will become infected today.

Condoms do fail for whatever reason: incorrect use, it is too old, slipped, poor quality, and the naturally occuring defect that occures in rubber. Condoms are not effective in stopping all dieases.

When you hear "Safe is sexy"... refers to 'responsible' casual sex... that means having sex without commitment, using a condom and trusting birth control... What you don't hear is the panic and fear of girls who miss their period or young couples discovering they are infected. What you don't hear are the tears of rejection. What you don?t hear are tragic stories of bad advice and the regret many have for not waiting.

You aren't hearing all of the truth.

Allan Guttmacher, Planned Parenthood's research branch states that over half of all abortions are the result of contraception failure.

Please, question these authorities!!!!! The first question to ask is "Would you trust a condom if you know your partner was infected with HIV?" It was found in a sex educators convention in Sweden, out of 800 sex educators who spoke about the effectiveness of safer sex, when asked that question, only one sex educator would trust the condom and the safer sex message.

Ask the question "How does having premarital sex with multiple people allow me to have a strong relationship or a successful marriage?" Studies are showing that premarital sex and multiple partners lead to higher divorce rates.

What is the specific research stating conclusively that condoms are effective in preventing STD's? Is the research specific to types of sexual activity? In 2000, at a Washington D.C. conference of experts who looked at all of the research concerning safer sex while using a condom, only 8 diseases were found to decrease spreading, and that was only from activities between a male and female vaginal intercourse?..The scientists and doctors didn't like the answers they found, so instead of releasing the information, they decided to study condoms some more, for fear of casing panic?..

One popular organization gives out condoms that were voted the worst condoms in the nation by Consumer Reports.
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